Hmmm, lets see…
- Father went to college
- Father finished college
- Mother went to college
- Mother finished college
- Have any relative who is an attorney, physician, or professor
- Were the same or higher class than your high school teachers
- Had more than 50 books in your childhood home
- Had more than 500 books in your childhood home
- Were read children’s books by a parent
- Had lessons of any kind before you turned 18
- Had more than two kinds of lessons before you turned 18
- The people in the media who dress and talk like me are portrayed positively
- Had a credit card with your name on it before you turned 18
- Your parents (or a trust) paid for the majority of your college costs
- Your parents (or a trust) paid for all of your college costs
- Went to a private high school
- Went to summer camp
- Had a private tutor before you turned 18
- Family vacations involved staying at hotels
- Your clothing was all bought new before you turned 18 (most of it, not all)
- Your parents bought you a car that was not a hand-me-down from them
- There was original art in your house when you were a child
- Had a phone in your room before you turned 18
- You and your family lived in a single family house
- Your parent(s) owned their own house or apartment before you left home
- You had your own room as a child (when I turned 12 I did)
- Participated in an SAT/ACT prep course
- Had your own TV in your room in High School (yes, used one that I bought at a yard sale for $20 my freshman year; also bought a computer my senior year; all from money I earned cutting grass, farming, and fixing cars with my dad)
- Owned a mutual fund or IRA in High School or College
- Flew anywhere on a commercial airline before you turned 16
- Went on a cruise with your family
- Went on more than one cruise with your family
- Your parents took you to museums and art galleries as you grew up
- You were unaware of how much heating bills were for your family
Not very many but as I kid growing up I didn’t feel like I was “underprivileged” and led a very happy life for the most part. I remember not having a TV until I was about 7 and listening to a small used radio at nights. I remember playing outside a lot and my dad making me “toys” to play with.
However, once I got to high school I did start noticing that some of my friends had a lot more things than I did and they also talked about vacations they took, places they would go, but really didnt think much of it because I knew my parents did the best they could with what they had. For example, I was involved in many extra-curricular activities from K-12; t-ball, flag football, basketball, track, science fairs, marching band, jazz band, concert band, drama club, science club, national honor society, UIL, etc. My parents spent a lot of money for me to be able to do those things; so it was a give or take kind of situation.
GWALP makes a lot of good points on her post as well coming from a “privileged” life style growing up. I think its up to the individual to do what it takes to get to where they want to go whether its easy or difficult; life isn’t fair for anyone.